Why did my cousin have to die on Easter Sunday?

He was killed in a drunk driving accident. He was not driving but his friend was drunk. I hadn't seen him in so many years & now I will never see him again. He was buried in ND & I live in TX so I can't just up & go to his grave site to see his tombstone. Please don't lecture me about "God" or any other religion b/c I am NOT religious in any way shape or form!